Sometimes being on placement and hearing certain things makes me realize how privileged I really am in this world. It’s nice to think you have everything you have in this world because you work hard but that’s only a tiny part of it. Being born into a certain family, a socio-economic advantaged group, a certain colour or sex influences your life so much. I was blessed to be given all I have and my goal is to help others who weren’t so lucky.

Anonymous:
I know you have a boyfriend and I respect that. But u have all these naughty fantasies about you and what I'd do to you in the bedroom. It involves you in lingerie, wrist and ankle restraints and a paddle ;)

;)

Anonymous:
Would you ever consider swinging with a friend? Like you would hook up and whatever with my bf and I would do stuff with graham?

It depends who it was and stuff. I’ve talked about stuff like this to Graham and we’ve both said it would heavily depend on who it was because we wouldn’t want to destroy friendships over it and we’d have to both be attracted to them etc. 

So yeah depends all on context.

Anonymous:
this is not attacking you, but why do you do what you do? (your job). why not get a regular job?

Because I don’t have time for a “regular job”.

I’m at uni Mondays and Tuesdays 9-5. I’m at placement Wed-Friday 8.30-5. I also have to fit in my assignments of an evening and weekends. If I was working in retail or behind a bar etc. I’d have to work every night of the week to make a fraction of what I earn now. I just couldn’t do it. I’d burn out and probably not get the grades I get at uni. If I could even get to uni.

Plus I love my job. I love that a lot of the time I feel like I’m getting paid to just party or hang out. I also love dancing and if I’m going to get paid a lot of money to do that I’m going to :)

damav:

vesta-88:

i dont play assassins creed, but is this like the entire plotline or something??

yes.

These guys were heaps of fun. It was a 5 hour waitressing shift which I’d normally hate but it was okay and went quite fast! I made heapsss of money too which was fantastic!

shingeki-no-kou:

I wish boobs did the bra thing without having to wear the bra

korra:

nekotin:

coffeeandcockatiels:

maddddddds:

korra:

awkward how reassuring i find this

well ya duh society shames speech patterns associated with young women


"Speech fillers" are just a human’s way of saying "wait a sec I’m thinking". It means we think more before we speak, always trying to find the right way to say it. Every language has them. And people shouldn’t be annoyed by it, ever.

no, it’s improper forms of speech, it shows you havent thought out your words already and aren’t prepared. Might not mean you’re dumb but hearing uh every five seconds detracts from the statements you’re making

you sound ugly